first and last time
I had the brilliant idea last night to join many of the Penn 2 men (Dylan included) in watching all 3 extended versions of LOTR in a row. I will never do that again for as long as I live. I mean, I love J.R.R. Tolkien and I love LOTR, both the books and the movies, but sitting in one place for that long (we started at 9:30 PM and ended at 5:45 AM) is suicidal.
Dylan and I had a really good talk last night about his relationship with Laura. I guess she mentioned marriage and it scared the crap out of him. He's having doubts about whether or not they will last together and is thinking about how it will be worse for both of them if he hangs on to the relationship just because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. It was good to be able to finally hear what's going on with them, and it was weird to see him so confused like that. Dylan is one of those people who has everything figured out (or he THINKS he does anyway) and is very technical; a "just-tell-me-the-problem-and-I'll-fix-it" kind of person, but he was just so confused and lost about what to do. It's gonna take some time, but I think he'll figure out what to do in the end. All I can do for him is to be there to listen and offer advice and give him a good hug when he needs it.
We also talked about whether or not Laura would be OK with us being friends like we are, and he thinks it's alright. We only had about 5 minutes cause one of the other guys from his floor was coming and we had to change the subject. At least now I know that he is alright with everything. I'd like to talk to him about it more, about how LAURA would feel about it as opposed to how HE feels about it, but I think it'll have to wait for another time.
Welp, I'm leaving to go see Phantom of the Opera in about 10 minutes, so I'll sign out for now.
Dylan and I had a really good talk last night about his relationship with Laura. I guess she mentioned marriage and it scared the crap out of him. He's having doubts about whether or not they will last together and is thinking about how it will be worse for both of them if he hangs on to the relationship just because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. It was good to be able to finally hear what's going on with them, and it was weird to see him so confused like that. Dylan is one of those people who has everything figured out (or he THINKS he does anyway) and is very technical; a "just-tell-me-the-problem-and-I'll-fix-it" kind of person, but he was just so confused and lost about what to do. It's gonna take some time, but I think he'll figure out what to do in the end. All I can do for him is to be there to listen and offer advice and give him a good hug when he needs it.
We also talked about whether or not Laura would be OK with us being friends like we are, and he thinks it's alright. We only had about 5 minutes cause one of the other guys from his floor was coming and we had to change the subject. At least now I know that he is alright with everything. I'd like to talk to him about it more, about how LAURA would feel about it as opposed to how HE feels about it, but I think it'll have to wait for another time.
Welp, I'm leaving to go see Phantom of the Opera in about 10 minutes, so I'll sign out for now.
posted by Temair at 2:34 PM
1 Comments:
Just be careful, if the the gole is to keep the friend dont get too deep in it, this is between him and his girlfriend, he needs to be truthful to her and tell her about you being friends he shouldnt hid the facty that he talks to you but... you need to know she may not want you in his life and then ke will have to make a hard choice. Remember god will bring you your right guy at the right time.
At least I believe that is how it works
jeremy
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